It should be so incredibly exciting. It should be the culmination of who knows how many thoughts, dreams and sleepless nights. And yet it is utterly terrifying!
My mum once told me the answer to one of life's great questions: How do you eat an elephant? It is, as it happens, much easier than you think to eat an elephant. A little bit a time.
The trouble with that as a concept is knowing where to start and how much you can chew on and swallow to qualify as a 'little bit'.
It should be easy, no? Decide to move. Find a house to move to. Confirm that the local schools are good enough. Make sure there's a suitable way of getting from the house to the schools. And somewhere to buy bread and milk, get to a station, an airport, a main road, a cycle route, somewhere to walk the dog, somewhere the cats won't get run over the first time they stick a whisker out the front door. Find out if there's a cinema closer than a week away. Where will the kids ride their bikes/play in the park, meet up with their friends. More importantly, sleep!
I can already feel the arguments brewing, the shouting matches about 'my room', 'your room', yes, no, no way, not a snowball in hell's chance.....
Today is not a positive 'up' day. Today is a huge, insurmountable challenges day. They will come and go in turn. Hopefully when there's a big intrusive 'For Sale' board stuck outside our houses it will start to seem real and not a million more miles away than it already does.

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